Wedding Wednesday on Thursday…haha can you tell I’ve been busy!
So this post is coming to you very late today but that is just due to it being a busy summer season already! Today I don’t have a top 5 list for you but more of just some words of advice or wisdom that I have learned over the last few years when it comes to not only planning my own wedding but also to helping others with their weddings!
Now that we are in the full swing of wedding season I think it’s extremely important to remember these few things leading into the big day.
First and foremost remembering that your wedding day it about you and your significant other. It’s what you want to show people about the two of you as a couple. If you spend the final weeks leading up to the big day trying to please everyone else you will only end up stressed and unhappy on a day that is supposed to be so full of love and joy. It can be hard when you have family who thinks you SHOULD have or do something in particular but if it’s not what you want then DON’T do it! You can’t please everyone and you don’t need to please everyone this is about YOU!
Remember to relax before hand! Take a day before the big day and get some R & R. I can’t tell you how important and imperative this can be on your mental health. I thankfully was very lucky with the way my wedding day planned out with rehearsal on a Friday, and wedding day on a Sunday I had all day Saturday to tie up loose ends and just hangout and relax!
Also take care of yourself and your significant other! With all of the fun and stress that comes with getting married it’s easy to forget about taking care of you body. The last thing you want to happen is getting sick right before the wedding so remember to take your vitamins and eat healthy coming up on the big day. This will also help to avoid any pre wedding weight gain that might happen and lead to dresses and tuxes and what not becoming to tight or too small. And along with eating healthy make sure you actually are eating each day so that you can keep your energy up and not become ill from lack of nutrition.
So again I know this is a late post and isn’t like our normal Wedding Wednesday posts but I still really hope that you take away something beneficial from these posts when heading into the big day!
Thank you for stopping by and keep an eye out for what might be up around the curve!